Reading her body

How much time, money and energy have you wasted hitting on a girl only to be shot down? does this happen to you over and over again? maybe you even thought you had a great conversation going and then all of sudden it’s like someone just flipped a switch and suddenly she’s no longer interested…shot down….again…

yeah, i know… it used to happen to me too…all the time. I’d wonder what i said and what i did. It crushed my self confidence and eventually i got to the point where i just hated going out to try to meet girls.

i’d never know what to say, how to act, and sometimes i’d get shot down even before i got close enough to buy her a drink, and try out some of my “great pick up lines”.

“it’s clear she wants you…did you miss the signal?” let me tell you a little story… one day i was hanging out with my old college room mate, jon, and we were talking over a beer at one of the local bars.

it was happy hour and the bar was packed. Girls were everywhere. The thing was, i didn’t care. I’d given up trying to meet anyone and jon had a great girlfriend, so he wasn’t there to check out the wo...read more detail...